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Online dating tips for couples

You and your spouse have just completed your couple profile on one of the couples online dating sites: Swing Lifestyle, Swingers Date Club, or Lifestyle Lounge, and within a day or so, your mailbox is overwhelmed with email responses from couples interested in meeting you. This may not be the case in all situations, but the key to getting responses to your couple profile, is having a complete, and interesting profile itself, and most important include current pictures of you two. Meeting couples online can be an exciting experience, as well as horrifying in more ways than one. Like many other couples, we don't respond to a couple's request to meet us, unless we see current pictures FIRST, no exceptions, and no surprises. Now getting back to your profile, Pictures are very important to getting responses, and replies, think of your profile as a webpage, more importantly a webpage that represents you and your spouses personality to the online swinging community.

We've noticed that we're always receiving responses after updating our profile photos, so the more pictures you provide, or update, the more likely you will get replies of some sort. If your profile is boring, or incomplete, people whom have never met you will assume you are the same, remember, your profile is introducing you to total strangers. Be upfront, and straight to the point as to what type of couple, and sexual experience you are looking for, and include it in your couple profile. One way to "turn off" the other couple is withholding important information, such as your desire for them to participate in: a bisexual experience (male or female), soft swinging only, and if you've changed significantly since taking that profile picture. Next, don't just sit back and wait for people to contact you, do some searching of your own, initiate contacts with other couples, and stay active, because most couple dating sites have profile statistics that display the total number of "mail sent", "mail received", and "mail replied", so if you're not sending or replying to mail, some couples will assume that it would be a waste of time contacting you.

Have fun with online dating, we find that you get out exactly what you put into it; We've met some really great couples, and established friendships with couples that come out to Club Meet4More to play with us. Always remember to play it safe by exchanging cellular numbers, and having a conversation with both members before arranging an in person meeting. Good luck, and Have lot's of fun.

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