We've been bringing people together since 2003 — and in that time, we've built something rare: a genuine community where open-minded adults can explore, connect, and celebrate life on their own terms.
Club Meet4More isn't just a party. It's a space built on trust, discretion, and mutual respect. Every rule below exists for one reason: to make sure everyone — from first-timers to longtime members — feels safe, seen, and free to be themselves.
We protect your privacy. Club Meet4More will never share, sell, or disclose your personal information to anyone. What happens here stays here. To connect with a fellow member, reach out to them directly at an event — we won't pass along contact details on anyone's behalf.
We believe in consent — always. Before touching anyone, ask. Before joining anyone, ask. "No" is a complete sentence and requires no explanation. If someone tells you no, thank them for their honesty, respect their answer, and move on. We take this seriously.
We celebrate women. Ladies are highly respected in this community. Harassment, stalking, or persistent unwanted attention toward anyone — especially women — is never acceptable and will result in suspension or permanent removal from the community.
We show up together. Couples attend and leave events as a couple. This isn't just a rule — it's part of what makes our community feel safe and connected.
We take care of our space. Our venue is your venue. Please treat it with respect, keep it clean, and take care of any accidents promptly. A clean, beautiful environment is part of the experience we all share.
In play areas: If you're present but not playing, keep your voice to a whisper — or stay quiet. Don't enter someone's personal space without being invited. When in doubt, ask.
On the main floor: Good vibes only. Rude, aggressive, or disrespectful behavior toward guests or staff will not be tolerated.
Outside the venue: Please keep noise levels down and respect the surrounding neighborhood. Discretion extends beyond the front door.
Online and on our network: Do not promote competing events on the Club Meet4More platform or at our events without written permission from management. This keeps our community focused and fair for everyone.
Everything above comes down to this: consent, respect, freedom from judgment, and personal responsibility trump everything else.
We're grateful you're part of this community. If you ever have a concern at an event, find a staff member immediately — we're here to make sure every night is a great one for everyone in the room.
See you soon.
— The Club Meet4More Team
Chicago & NW Indiana's premier private lifestyle community since 2003